Healing Fear 1 of 5: Why is Fear Faster Than the Blink of an Eye?
In this video Dr. Kate invites you into a deeper understanding of how our fear brain impacts our ability to be our best selves on a day-to-day basis. There’s even a PowerPoint! When we are living in a state of increased tension, stress, anxiety, or fear our amygdala may start to play an overwhelming role in how our brain interprets information in our world. In these moments even the most neutral stimuli may be met with agitation, frustration, or anxiety. Have you ever overreacted to an incoming text message or someone’s tone of voice? Us too! That’s the impact of the amygdala on our brain functioning. In this series of videos, you will learn all about our dear survival-based friend “Amy” the Amygdala and the fierce protective role she plays in keeping us alive as well as how to help her not just slow down but also heal.
Healing Fear 2 of 5: Did You Know Our Fear Brain Remembers Things?
In this video Dr. Kate explores why and how our fierce warrior protector Amy the amygdala remembers things and how we can help her forget the things that no longer need to be remembered. Let’s examine new opportunities for self-healing in our hands while moving into a compassionate awareness of how and why our Amygdala is fighting so hard to keep us safe. When we have an experience in our life that is big and scary enough then Amy records that data and superglues it into our memory for easily accessible recall. The impact of this is triggers, stress, burnout, anxiety, depression, and more. When Amy starts to feel overwhelmed all the time then we will begin to navigate the world through fear glasses. (You got it: the opposite of those rose-colored glasses!) Understanding why this is happening is an important part of your self-healing and recovery journey. Knowledge truly is power!
Healing Fear 3 of 5: Our Fear Brain Loves To Gossip
Our Amygdala loves to gossip about all the scary things. Strange isn’t it? She’ll interact with many different brain parts creating her very own choose your own adventures of doom when she’s afraid. This results in increasing agitation, stress, anxiety, rumination and more. Oh our sweet “Amy”… she’s always trying to keep us safe at the cost of our quality of life! In this video Dr. Kate explores the relationship of the Amy the amygdala with the working memory and prefrontal cortex and discusses the role Amy plays in defining our sense of self in the world around us. When we help Amy heal, we are empowering ourselves to build resilience and agency. Come learn how to stop those ruminating thoughts that cause so much pain and beginning building your resilient neuro-garden!
Healing Fear 4 of 5: Healing in Your Own Hands: CPR for the Amygdala
CPR for the Amygdala is an easy-to-use tool for calming the mind and body in a moment of emotional hijack. Watch this short video and learn how to calm your brain through the engagement of the Self-Havening touch and brain exercises. A fast brain is a reactive brain, and a slow brain is a calm brain. Let’s calm the mind and put you back in charge of your emotional state.
Healing Fear 5 of 5: Building Resilience and Creating Possibilities
Did you know our brain is capable of growing and changing across the course of your life? This concept is called neuroplasticity. We have the ability to actually train our brain into an empowered and resilient state.
In this video Dr. Kate teaches a new protocol for harnessing the power of Neuroplasticity to create new neural pathways and build your resilient brain. Happy Brain Building!
In this blog I have often emphasized the fact that as humans, 90 percent of our present moment is informed by experiences from our past. As a trauma survivor, I have learned to recognize when my survival brain, also known as our fear brain, is throwing up warning signs from my past. This ability, which can be intentionally developed over time, can allow you to decipher these warnings in the context of what is happening in the present moment. It empowers you to deepen your relationship with yourself and develop methods for finding balance between what your fear brain would have you do, and what you would choose to do. In this article I want to show you some of those tools for resilience and explain how they work.
understanding The role of the fear brain in our lives
Let’s talk about fear and get to know our fear brain a little better. I call her “Amy,” the amygdala of our brains—our fiercest protector and the heart of our fear brain. All of those experiences from our past—whether good, bad, ugly (or even unconscious!)—are locked up inside Amy, until she recognizes the perfectly relevant present moment in which to have them make their appearance. This is often not a bad thing, because our fear brain’s Spidey sense, and memory system, deserves much of the credit for the fact that each of us has stayed alive for as long as we have. A split-second decision made by our primal survival brain can keep us from stepping off of a cliff or running out into traffic to our deaths. At the forefront of this process is Amy, overriding our thinking brain in our brain’s information processing.
On the flip side, when we are living with increased stress, anxiety or fear, Amy’s constant hyperawareness of threat can take on an overpowering role in our brain’s information-processing sequences. The problem comes when something that Amy fears from 20 years ago that is no longer a problem in our current lives sets off Amy’s threat assessment algorithm and its subsequent choice of action before our thinking brain can be involved in helping to choose a course of action. When Amy finds something that is threatening enough to her to be memorable, she no longer has a sense of time, and her evaluation of the threat level can plunge us into less-than-preferable behaviors like lashing out in anger, withdrawing from other people, or choosing to ease our stress and anxiety with alcohol or other substances.
calming the fear brain
Amy doesn’t speak English, French, ASL, Mandarin, or any other spoken language. If you’ve ever tried to talk yourself out of your anxiety, then you know what I mean. In order to calm Amy down and get our prefrontal cortex (our thinking brain) to come online in our information-processing sequence, we need to understand the language of electrochemistry, which is the only one Amy understands. Amy is first to jump in on that information-processing sequence at 75 milliseconds—about four times faster than the blink of an eye. The thinking brain gets in much later, at 350 milliseconds (assuming Amy lets it in at all). So, the amygdala is processing information about the situation four times faster than our thinking brain is even aware it is happening. The diagram below shows what that looks like.
On the right side of the diagram, we see the timing of the information-processing sequence. Something happens to trigger one of our five senses and the amygdala is first to assess the situation and react to it. On the left, in the alert levels, you can see that your thinking brain is fully involved in the information sequence if Amy is not alerted—that is, if she doesn’t assess the situation to be a threat. If Amy is alerted at 30 percent, the thinking brain is still there but is only involved at 70 percent. So if Amy is alerted at 100 percent, she takes over completely. And Amy’s relationship with you goes deep: encompassing not only your brain, but your whole body as well.
Amy just wants you to survive, and concerns about your quality of life play no role in her designing a split-second solution to what she deems a threat. That’s O.K. if a mountain lion suddenly jumps into the path ahead, coming at you, and Amy causes you to instinctively remember that you should wave your arms wildly, make yourself look as big as you can and make as much noise as possible. What’s not good is when Amy causes you to scream, cuss, honk, step on the accelerator, and tailgate someone on the freeway at 70 miles per hour because they just endangered you by cutting you off in traffic.
Because, as noted before, our thinking brain often has little control over what the fear brain does in moments of stress, we have to initially work on the process of calming Amy down outside of these moments so we have resilience-building tools to use in those times when the warning lights start flashing. Resilience is a process that we can work on continually every day in our lives and calming the fear brain is part of that process. Let’s explore some ways we can do that.
Introducing you to CPR for the Amygdala®
CPR for the Amygdala, which stands for Creating Personal Resiliency for the Amygdala, is designed to help you regain physical and emotional balance when you find yourself in times of stress. In the following 12-minute video exercise, you will learn how to use self-havening on your palms, upper arms, and face to generate slow, calming delta waves in the brain. With CPR for the Amygdala, the self-havening touch is combined with “brain games,” that can distract your amygdala and the working memory from the amygdala’s tales of stress.
Taking CPR for the Amygdala and Resilience a Step Further By Creating Possibilities
After we get Amy to calm down and feel safe by using CPR for the Amygdala and we are able to give the working memory a new job, we then want to look to creating new possibilities for how we would like to feel in certain moments, and for new overall pathways we would like to have in our lives. The Creating Possibilities Protocol is an opportunity for building those new neural pathways and supporting us in sustainably having the brain we would like to live in going forward—the sense of self through which we would like to navigate the world. The following 8-minute video shows how to create possibilities by using positive memories. The protocol I teach in the video is written for you below so you can cut and paste it for your own future practice.
Creating Possibilities Using Positive Memories:
1) While Havening, assess what emotion you would like to currently be experiencing and/or would like to carry with you into an experience. Recall a time where you felt that emotion.
2) While Havening, focus on that emotion and say the statement “What if I was _______”; repeat the statement 5 times.
3) While Havening, focus on that emotion and change statement to “I deserve to be _______”; repeat 5 times.
4) While Havening, focus on that emotion and change statement to “I am _______”; repeat 5 times.
5) Repeat the cycle of the three statements until the desired feeling is present.
Exploring More Possibilities
The two videos above are part of our “Healing Fear” Series on our YouTube channel. If you would like to take a deeper dive into healing the fear brain, you will find the entire series in the sidebar to this article.
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