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New insights in the world of Neuroscience have led to the development of revolutionary techniques for moving into an intimate relationship with the neural pathways that define your personal experience of your world.
Are you ready for empowered change? It’s time to live your excellence. Read on to explore how these new advances create opportunities for harnessing the power of neuroplasticity, and create a space for inspiration to flow.
For Leaning Into Failure
A Havening Therapeutic Exercise to Change How You Think About Failure & Create An Empowered Mindset
In this guided meditation, Dr. Kate Truitt leads us to a healthy and empowered relationship with the idea of failure. She begins by asking us to welcome in havening touch and healing breath. Once we have reached a calm state, she asks us to imagine that we are standing in front of a board with failure written in big block letters.
Then, she asks our mind to wander and think about our reaction to the word failure. Does it have a color, feeling, or weight to it? What does the construct of failure look like in your mind’s eye? Are these associations that we have made or that our circumstances or surroundings have taught us?Many of us have learned that failure is bad or unacceptable. Dr. Kate asks us to look at why we think this way about failure. As we wander and explore failure, Dr. Kate welcomes in breath and having touch to comfort us in this journey. She then asks us to imagine that we are filling up balloons with these constructs of failure. They can be filled with thoughts, feelings, experiences or anything we relate to a bad connotation of failure. By altering our relationship and connotations associated with failure, we can shift our mindset.
A Havening Guided Meditation to Overcome Mistakes and Build Motivation
In this guided mediation, Dr. Kate Truitt helps us to create space when mistakes are made and lean into the opportunity for forgiveness and growth.
Dr. Kate asks us to bring in havening touch and soothing breath and calm our mind. Then she asks us to look back for a time when our brain was excited about experiencing or learning something new. What does it feel like to be curious and driven about something new? She invites us to bring this experience to the front, and examine what the energy feels, looks, and smells like? How do our senses bear witness to this experience?
She then asks us to shift our attention toward a time when we felt we made a mistake or weren’t our best. Once we have noticed that experience, Dr. Kate asks us to connect briefly with that energy but return to the optimistic feeling of learning something new.
By working through these experiences next to each other, Dr. Kate helps us to realize that we can release the negativity surrounding mistakes and treat them as an opportunity for learning.
Why You Need to Learn to Love Failure: It's the Key to Success and Personal Empowerment!
In this educational video, Dr. Kate Truitt explains that we have the power to change our brains’ relationship with failure. Our brains are hard-wired to respond strongly to mistakes, so that our brains are able to remember and learn from them. While this can keep us safe from an evolutionary standpoint, it can also hold us back.
Dr. Kate suggests redefining failure as learning, which would allow for mistakes to not become a part of our core identity. If we have the right mindset, failing is no different from learning any other way.
Unpacking the Relationship Between Failure and Motivation - Change Your Thoughts to Create Success!
In this psychoeducation video, Dr. Kate Truitt explains that most of us have grown up in an environment that taught us to have a fear of making mistakes, despite the fact that our brains are designed to make mistakes.
She says that our brains are curiosity based and love to learn new things; however, when we carry a negative association with mistakes, it can hinder our brains desire to learn.
Our narrative with failure directly affects our motivation to be successful, thus Dr. Kate asks us to think about how we react when we make a mistake. Are we kind to ourselves, or do we respond negatively? If we react poorly, we can employ the exercise CPR for the Amygdala in order to reset and calm our system.
Once we are present, we can greet our mistakes with the same love and kindness that we give ourselves when we succeed.
Releasing Your Critical Thoughts to Create Personal Empowerment
In this psychoeducation video, Dr. Kate Truitt asks us to examine who the most important person in our lives is and then explains the importance of having the answer be us.
When we make mistakes, we are often unkind to ourselves. If we are the most important person in our lives, then we must treat ourselves with kindness. She then explains that we carry tapes in our mind that replay harsh words from our past. However, since they are tapes, we have the ability to press pause and evaluate if the tape is a necessity in our lives.
These tapes are also known as automatic thoughts, or thoughts that constantly roll through our minds. Dr. Kate explains that Amy the amygdala encourages these thoughts of self-protection, for our brains have learned to play small in these situations where we have previously made mistakes.
Dr. Kate recommends that we start paying attention to the thoughts that we have when we aren’t living up to the expectations of the tapes in our mind.
A Guided Meditation for Releasing Critical Thoughts and Building Loving Kindness
In this guided meditation, Dr. Kate Truitt teaches us how to release the negative tapes of our past and create new opportunities for empowered healing.
As always, she invites us to welcome in havening touch and soothing breath. Then she asks us to notice a time where we have felt like we let ourselves or somebody else down. Once we have found one of these times, Dr. Kate invites us to watch the memory occur from a stage.
She guides us to look inward and examine what thoughts and feelings come up when we watch this experience. Then she asks us to put those feelings into a tape, where we have play and pause buttons at our disposal.
We often have these tapes playing in our heads, so once we realize that we have the ability to stop these unhelpful tapes from playing over and over in our heads, we can begin to build loving kindness within ourselves.
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